You've been in the meetings with the men in black, the women with Blackberrys who speak in terms that are confusing, and often daunting. The meetings are very long and over-populated. People come and go, they are needed at other over-populated meetings. Everyone drinks bottled water, never coffee, and there is the illusion of group think. At the end of the meeting, whew, everyone appeared smart, no one made a decision.